ANGER ALSO LEADS TO ‘BUGHZ’ (RESENTMENT)
If a person gets very angry with someone who is not a subordinate, for
example is his boss, or is someone in authority, then he may not dare to say
anything or express his anger in his presence, but in such circumstances
excessive anger often leads to Gheebat (backbiting, غیبت). Sometimes
even after doing a lot of Gheebat, a person’s anger still doesn’t cool down,
because he is so angry that he feels like causing the other person harm but is
unable to do so because of the other person’s power or position. This constant
insatiable feeling of anger leads to resentment (Bughz, بغض). Then
the person starts harbouring wishes of harming the other person all the time,
and if he comes to harm through some other means, then the angry person feels
happy. This is Bughz (resentment) which is a sin in itself, and arises from
uncontrolled anger.
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