Wednesday 13 December 2017

CONTROL YOUR ANGER: 2

THE TWO MOTIVES BEHIND SINS, ANGER AND DESIRE

if a person looks closely then they will notice that there are two kinds of motives or emotions that lie behind all the sins committed in this world, whether they be related to rights of Allah (حقوق الّٰلہ), or rights of people (حقوق العباد), one is anger, and the other is desire. Desire can be Halal (permissible), like desire for eating good food that a person can obtain through Halal means. Or the desire can be Hara’am (unlawful), for example, desire of owning more and more wealth leading a person to engage in theft or robbery. Similarly, anger can sometimes be appropriate, for example if another person attacks his person, property or honour unduly, but if one acts in anger where it is not due, it can lead to many sins.


Hazrat Thanvi Rehmatullah Elaih (RE) used to say that the matter of this Hadith, i.e. controlling one’s anger, is one of the major requirements of Tareeqat (Tasawuf, تصوّف). If a person wants to progress in the way of Allah and wants to go through Tazkiah (تزکیہ) (Tazkiah literally means purification, in this context it refers to self-purification), then the first step in that journey will be to control his anger.

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