Sunday 31 December 2017

CONTROL YOUR ANGER: 18

HAZRAT ABU BAKR SIDDIQ RAA SCOLDING HIS SLAVE

In another narration it is stated that when the Holy Prophet saw Hazrat Abu Bakr Siddiq Razi Allah Anhu scolding his slave, he said,
لعّانین و صدّیقین کلّا و ربّ الکعبة

“On one hand you curse your slave, and on the other hand you become Siddiq. By the Master of Ka’abah this cannot happen,” meaning that your status is that of a Siddiq, and cursing your slave is not compatible with the status of Siddiq. This is how the Holy Prophet advised Hazrat Abu Bakr RAA not to act on his anger. The lesson for us is that whenever we begin to get angry with someone we must remind ourselves that Allah Ta’alah holds much greater authority and power over me than I have over this person. If Allah Ta’alah begins to get angry with me the same way I am getting angry with this person, then where will I find refuge? These are the various strategies of controlling our anger that the Holy Quran and the Holy Prophet have taught us.

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