USE PRETEND ANGER WHEN SCOLDING
MINORS
Because of this بغض
فی الّٰلہ (anger for Allah) sometimes
a person has to express anger, particularly at those people who are under their
charge in some way, for example, a teacher at his students, parents at their
children, a Sheikh at his disciples. But this anger must be kept within limits
and should not exceed the limits set by Shariah. As mentioned above in the
advice given by Hazrat Thanvi RE, it is important not to express anger in such
situations when overcome by strong emotions, as the risk of transgressing
limits would be much higher then. Rather the teacher should wait till their
anger subsides, and then scold them with pretend anger. This is obviously
difficult because most people get carried away in anger. Therefore, unless a
person practices it again and again, particularly while going through Tazkiah
(internal purification), it is a very difficult skill to develop.
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